Lesson 10

Families of Faith

(1 Kings 11)
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Introduction: What impact does the popular culture have on your faith? On your decisions about what is right and wrong? If you lined up your favorite television program with the standards of the Bible, how close would they be? Over the years, I have proposed about a simple but painful test: compare the amount of time you spend each week watching television with the amount of time spent studying the Bible. If you spend more time with the television, it will have the larger influence on you. Cultural influences have been with us for a very long time, so let's jump into our lesson and study their effect on families of the past!

  1. King Solomon


    1. Read 1 Kings 10:23-25. What do we learn about King Solomon?


      1. Put yourself in his place: how would you feel about yourself? About your life?


      2. How would you handle your pride?


    2. Read 1 Kings 10:26-29. We talk today about having "toys" (possessions for pleasure). You know the phrase: "He who dies with the most toys wins?" How was Solomon on the "toy" front?


      1. Do you think God had an opinion on acquiring "toys?" If so, what was it? (Read Deuteronomy 17:16.)


        1. God's command seems contrary to logic. Horses and chariots were not just toys, they were the most advanced military weapons of the day. Why do you think God commanded that His people have limited military ability? (The Bible Knowledge Commentary has it: "the Lord wanted His people to depend on Him for their protection.")


    3. Read 1 Kings 11:1. What other distracting things did Solomon have going in his life? (Many foreign women.)


      1. What is the attraction of foreign women?


      2. How many times have you seen this repeated in life: a man becomes wealthy and successful in his old age. He gets all new things and finally he gets a new wife. Sound familiar?


        1. I guess in Solomon's situation he never left any of the old wives!


    4. Read 1 Kings 11:2. Solomon is King. It was popular and important for a head of state to marry into the family of other heads of state. This helped to keep your nation on good terms with other nations. What problem do you see with this political strategy? (God specifically told Solomon not to intermarry with women of other nations.)


      1. Did Solomon obey God?


        1. Why do you think Solomon disobeyed?


    5. There is another relevant command that is not mentioned in 1 Kings 11. Read Deuteronomy 17:17. How would you rate Solomon's obedience? (This command also says the King should not accumulate large amounts of gold and silver. 1 Kings 10:27 says Solomon made silver as common as stones.)


    6. Read 1 Kings 11:3-6. Was God right in His warning about foreign wives?


      1. Tell me what you think about God's standards. Our text never says that Solomon stopped believing in God. What was Solomon's sin as far as God was concerned? (Solomon did not follow God completely.)


      2. What was the reason why Solomon did not follow God completely? (The "cultural" influence of his foreign wives.)


      3. Look back again at 1 Kings 11:2. What does it say about Solomon's emotional ties to his foreign wives? (He held fast to them in love.)


      4. Put yourself in Solomon's place. He loves his foreign wives. He loves God. Love is natural and wonderful. Solomon does not "force his religion" on his wives. Thus, he slowly slips into another mind set. Could you rationalize this if you were Solomon?


      5. How about you, friend? Does God have the same standard for you as He had for Solomon?


        1. Would it be fair to say that you follow God "completely?" Or, do you have this private little area of your life that you keep to yourself?


          1. What impact does the culture have on you?


          2. Is it fair to say that you "love" the culture around you?


    7. Read 1 Kings 11:7-8. To what did the influence of Solomon's foreign wives ultimately lead?


    8. Read 1 Kings 11:9-10. What was the result of Solomon's unfaithfulness?


      1. Notice that the text says that God "had appeared to [Solomon] twice." What point is being made? (The closer you are to God, the more He expects of you.)


    9. Read Revelation 3:17. Would this apply to Solomon? Would it apply to you?


    10. Read Ecclesiastes 4:13. Did Solomon ever realize the error of his ways?


    11. Read 1 Kings 11:11-12. What, at bottom, is God's complaint about Solomon? (God goes to the heart of the matter: Solomon's attitude. Our attitude is what God is most concerned about. Because Solomon had the attitude of (Eccl. 4:13) "an old but foolish king who no longer knows how to take warning," God could not work with Solomon. Solomon now trusted in himself rather than God.)


      1. What do you think about the penalty being imposed on Solomon's son? (If you read the rest of the chapter, you will see that Solomon had to deal with the problem of hostile nations in his own life-time. The most important point, however, is how the faith of the parents have the ability to affect the lives of their children. David's devotion helped to protect Solomon. Solomon's unfaithfulness helped injure his son.)


  2. Resisting the Culture


    1. As we have been looking at Solomon, I keep going back to pick up sections of Deuteronomy 17. Let's read the sections I have brought to your attention earlier in this study. Read Deuteronomy 17:16-17.


    2. Now lets read Deuteronomy 17:18-19. What is God's antidote to being sucked in by the popular culture? (One of the great blessings of writing this Bible study each week is that it forces me to constantly compare God's will with my own sinful life. I am convicted this week of my sin of not giving God every part of my life.)


    3. Proverbs 2:1-5 is believed to be either collected or written by King Solomon. When he wrote this advice is another matter. Let's look at this text as if it were written after the events we have studied in 1 Kings 11. Let's break these verses down to learn the lessons Solomon teaches us on how to avoid being taken in by the popular culture.


      1. Read Proverbs 2:1. What lesson do we find here? (We need to have an accepting and diligent attitude towards God's word. Studying God's word so diligently that we can remember His teachings.)


      2. Read Proverbs 2:2. What lesson is here? (We need to read and apply God's word to our life. God's advice needs to become part of our heart.)


      3. Read Proverbs 2:3-4. What lesson is here? (We need to search for the meaning in God's word.)


      4. Read Proverbs 2:5. What lesson is here? (If we diligently seek God's wisdom, and apply it to our life instead of applying the wisdom of the popular culture, then God will reward us with an understanding of His will. Our standards will come from God and not the culture.)


  3. Passing the Torch


    1. Read Judges 2:6-10. What caused Joshua's generation to serve God and the following generation to turn away from God? ( Judges 2:7 says the first generation "has seen all the great things the Lord had done for Israel.")


      1. How do we make sure this does not happen to us or to our children - that we turn away from God? (The things which God has done for His people are recorded in the Bible. Just as Bible study is important for us to resist the popular culture, so teaching our children the blessings of studying the Bible is important for keeping the works of God before their generation.)


    2. Friend, one very important key to remaining faithful to God and resisting pagan culture is to diligently and open-mindedly study the Bible. Will you commit to that today? Will you commit to spending more time with your Bible then you spend with your television?


  4. Next week: What Have They Seen In Your House?

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